I don't hand out diplomas at the end of my boot camps or cycling classes, but sometimes I think I should. Tammy Means surely would get a Ph.D. in Badass.
Almost a year ago, Tammy sent me a hesitant email. She wanted to know more about Badass Fitness boot camps and TRX classes. She wondered about the intensity. She asked me if I thought she could get through it. Her self-doubt radiated through the computer screen.
I reassured her that we would make the classes work for her level, and that no matter where she began, I would work with her to help her get stronger. So she came to that first class. And then another. And another.
She pushed through when her arthritis kicked in. She learned to cook healthier for herself and husband Harley, and to make better food choices outside the house. She started cutting back her alcohol. She joined a group of us for the Warrior Dash race here in North Florida. She nailed a similar obstacle course race here in Tallahassee. (There she is rocking the kettlebell walk, left)
And then, one day not too long ago, she told me she was thinking about starting her own blog - to share her fitness triumphs and struggles with others, particularly others with arthritis.
That's when I knew Tammy had "graduated." Sure, she has lost pounds and inches. But her victory is bigger than her smaller jeans. The self-doubt of her first email has been replaced by a stronger, more confident Tammy. She has found the healthy lifestyle that worked for her. She has found her voice. It is called GingerMantra.
As a fitness instructor, everything is about getting to these moments. It is about getting students to become independently Badass, so to speak. I want them to get to the point where they don't depend on me or any other instructor for their fitness. I want them to find what works for them, and to embrace it and own it. Yes, I will always be there welcoming students to class and cheering them on, but I love knowing they have the tools to keep going on their own.
Tammy is at that place. It is beyond awesome and inspiring. Enough from me. Here's Tammy, sharing her Badass Journey (and here she is, with Harley last year before she started coming to class, and earlier this month):
To start, I just want to say thank you to Shannon for encouraging me to start my weekly blog as a way to reach out to others that may be going through the same motions that I found myself going through. Reading her weekly blog really also helped me find my inner writer and desire to help others. The reinforcement that I could do it, not only from her, but from my husband and family, have made me strive to help others through words and encouragement.
In recent months I have put myself on a path of making changes, positive changes, in my daily living. I’ve changed the entire way I eat. I found through the process of elimination that a lot of the foods I previously consumed, like pasta dishes and heavy carbs, do not agree with my body. So I have reduced them to no more than once a week and a single portion as a side instead of as an entire meal. You have to figure out what works for you. I went to a nutritionist and started receiving guidance on what I needed to put more focus on. I have incorporated more fresh vegetables and eliminated the frozen vegetable section all together at the grocery store. If it is not fresh or available in the produce section, it does not go in my cart. I also reduced the amount of red meat I was consuming and replaced it with chicken and turkey.
Probably my hardest thing, even harder than changing my diet, was finding the right exercise program for my body. Living with an autoimmune disease that attacks your joints makes physical activity much more difficult, BUT it doesn’t mean that you should cut it out all together. I found that being kinder to my body and my joints has helped me improve my flexibility. Walking, hiking, cycling, swimming and stretching have made so much of a difference. So much so that for the first time in a very long time, I am able to stand upright, grab my foot and do a normal quad stretch. I cannot tell you how long it has been since I have been able to do that.
I also have controlled my consumption of alcohol, which was very hard. Moderation is always the best option. I do not always adhere to this, but I am making an effort. I have changed my consumption of alcohol to weekends only instead of weeknights.
Also key: Rest, rest, rest! My husband and I find it funny that when friends or family invite us places and the time to meet is past 9 pm, that we always get a sideways look when we say that is past our bedtime. Getting up at 4:40 am every morning to fit in exercise means the Means family goes to bed between 8:30 and 9 pm most nights, unless it is a full moon (in which case I get insomnia!).
I say all of this, to say this: YOU are the missing piece of the puzzle to getting on the path that you need to. Figure it out for you and not for the person that you think you want to be like. Make changes because you want to make changes, not because you think it is what society thinks you should do. Research everything, and I mean everything! You’re worth the time, trust me. So make a plan, for yourself!
I am still on my journey of changes, and I refuse to ever just give up again.
Coming this week: Amaze-Balls Good Amaze-Bites that are guilt-free, healthy chocolatey goodness! And 5 Badass Truths I wish I'd known when I was 25 - the first FitFluential blog post!
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